Escape anger

“If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.”
忍得一时之气 免得百日之忧


Isn't this true? There are just things that we always regret of doing after we calm down. Just take a deep breath and calm down when you're mad, maybe that would give you a better life  than what you have right now. 

Life without a destination, you are lost. Having a friend to find you when you're lost, then you just find yourself a destination. 

The quote.

"There's only one corner of the universe you can be sure of improving, and that's your own self." - Aldous Huxley

Seems like I found a great quote for my blog. Yes, rather than complaining about the world or the society, how about trying to improve the world by improving our own selves?

How to love...

Thinking of what can make my relationship better. Since I was always a bad lover, I concluded I should improve on love. I googled "how to love" and the first relevant website said that we should love by:

1. Say it   2. Empathize  3. Love unconditionally  4.  Expect nothing in return  5. Realized it can be lost

Wow, I think I'm missing some of these. This actually makes me think that I'm a even worse lover. I definitely forget to think in my partner's shoes many times when we fight. Definitely not loving unconditionally. And obviously I expect something in return, like love. I love you. No matter what, you deserve my love, and I want to give it the right way.

Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love. - Leo Buscaglia


If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back they’d never ask you to. - Anon


It's not about right or wrong, it's about if she's happy about it or not. - Fiona 

Hate less, love more.

Out of those things, I'm thinking I need to do basically all of them. Most importantly, I'll try to whine less, and hate less. And hopefully good things will be mine.

"Fear less, hope more; Whine less, breathe more; Talk less, say more; Hate less, love more; And all good things are yours." - Swedish Proverb 

It's sad how times can change

It's sad when people you know become people you knew.

When you can walk right past someone like they were never a big part of your life.

How you used to be able to talk for hours and how now, you can barely even look at them...

It's sad how times can change.