Thinking of what can make my relationship better. Since I was always a bad lover, I concluded I should improve on love. I googled "how to love" and the first relevant website said that we should love by:
1. Say it 2. Empathize 3. Love unconditionally 4. Expect nothing in return 5. Realized it can be lost
Wow, I think I'm missing some of these. This actually makes me think that I'm a even worse lover. I definitely forget to think in my partner's shoes many times when we fight. Definitely not loving unconditionally. And obviously I expect something in return, like love. I love you. No matter what, you deserve my love, and I want to give it the right way.
Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love. - Leo Buscaglia
If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back they’d never ask you to. - Anon
It's not about right or wrong, it's about if she's happy about it or not. - Fiona
