If you still have a chance to say sorry, would you?

I would. Apologizing for my fault makes my heart at peace even though the other person is also wrong. I started this post 5 months ago. Never got to finish it because a part of me is telling me making my heart at peace is just a selfish way to make me happy. 


Maybe, maybe making sure other people's heart is at peace is better. 


Or maybe, maybe one day all apologies would come from heart, and others would take and accept apologies to the heart and learn to forgive. But one difficult thing is, if I'm having trouble doing that myself, how can I convince others to do so?





"An emotionless apology is an insult to an injury." - unknown

“Apology doesn’t change the past, but it widens the future.” - unknown

“Apologizing with heart requires strong character.”  - unknown

"Saying sorry doesn’t mean there isn’t guilt and forgiving doesn’t mean the pain is gone." - unknown

"Nobody can bring you peace but yourself." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Be honest.

Please be honest to your important ones. It's beauty.

Romance - Pretty self explanatory. Be honest. Honesty is so hard, at least for me. But after all, don't you just feel a lot better when you don't have to lie/hide about everything? I used to lie my butt off with my ex's. When I thought I have everything in control and I'm just so happy playing around, I was wrong. Now I'm completely honest in my relationship and I feel so good. How could I lie to someone I love? How could you? If that someone is worth it, then please give your vary best and stay completely honest.

Friend - Once I asked my friend, "how important am I to you?" "very," she replied. Then [some story happened]. I don't know what you usually mean when you say someone is important to you, but if I say it, I mean it. Important at a good way, important in my mind, life, and action. And I would give you my respect. Please be honest when you say things to a real friend and act on it, because maybe that person would be the one to help you when you're down. But friends do come and go, and why waste time at someone that's not worth it. So now we're just normal acquittance, in my opinion.

“Honest hearts produce honest actions.” - Brigham Young


“Honesty: The best of all the lost arts” - Mark Twain